Phoebe's Poly Dating Adventures

So... Here we are. 2020 is drawing to a close and yours truly has been wearily plodding through, day by day. Everything came to a crashing halt for me 11 days ago when my husband came down with something that seemed like it could be covid. First test was negative, and he started to get better, but then got worse, and we're still waiting on the second test. It's been a LONG eleven days. Obviously I'm not meeting up with anyone while this is all going on. So that means that everyone I'm talking to has been put on hold for meeting. Most of them have been very understanding about it. I have remained healthy, by the way, as I sip my Emergen-C cocktail LOL. One guy, we'll call him Brad... Well, he didn't seem to get it. It started with a long message on SLS about how he lost my number. First off, this is always a red flag to me because he had the number in at least two places: on the site when I originally gave it to him and also in his phone because we did text for a

So, nothing major has happened since my last update. I'm still talking to several different men, met one in person last week, and that went well, but I'm honestly not sure I believe he has an arrangement with his wife. He's been a little evasive, but that's not what this post is about. This post is about me and how in the past couple of weeks I haven't felt like having sex. I mean, that's great in my regular home life since my husband hardly ever wants to (I think he actually did once last week, but it was apparently so lackluster that I don't even remember it!) If you've been paying attention, you might have noticed there are a lot of things going on: a global pandemic, a close and probably contested election, and in my personal life I have a father-in-law dying of cancer and about one million projects to complete (give or take a few.) These things have contributed to being in somewhat of a libido slump. Hell, I haven't even masturbated in a week no