Day #1

It's technically day like 713 but I just started this blog and we're only looking forward at this point.

Here are the current stats:

Men I've met in person this year: 2
Men I've fucked: 0
Men I've talked to offline: 5


Local guy sends me a message the other day that literally says:
Subject: YOU
Message: are beautiful.

Okay, great. Thanks for that. I just email back "thanks" and do the requisite scope of his profile. A couple of dick pics and totally blank for text. Yeah, that's pretty typical on fetlife. 

Then he asks me how my weekend is going, or something generic like that.

I am in the mood to play for some odd reason, so I tell him that I've been working all weekend, but my puppy got spayed and keeping her calm has been a challenge.

So then he proceeds to give me veterinarian advice in his next three messages.

We've exchanged six messages or so now, and I still know NOTHING ABOUT HIM. Not what he looks like, what he does for a living, what he's into, what he's looking for, NOTHING.

But I am well aware of his dog-calming methods.

What the fuck? 


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